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A chance in new orleans
Floating in the wind
I need some advice in order to either forget or what should be done instead. It may sound so high school-ish but I went out to New Orleans for a bachelorette party this past weekend, I am the Maid of Honor and so I planned this party that was 2 hours away from our home town. I was also designated driver, so in other words I was sober 90% of the night. The group of us went out to this bar and we end up meeting a group of guys that were throwing a bachelor party and all of us are getting along. They were so funny and so great, well of course it happens one of the guys starts to flirt and starts getting closer to me and I am excepting. But he is shy and I figure early on that I am going to have to make the move, so I do and it was the best I have had in a long time, no sex just making out. The two of us hang out for a while until the rest of the group wants to go somewhere else, the guys follow, at this point he is drunk. The only problem occurs when we go to the next "place" where only girls are allowed up stairs and the guys are in the downstairs, it is a strip joint. We leave and I don't see him again, I also did not get his number or give him mine and now I can't get him out of my mind. Which sucks because I am dating, not seriously, a guy who is great but I just can't get this other guy out of my head to where I can concentrate on the guy I am currently seeing off and on. I don't know if I will ever see the guy from new orleans ever again considering that he lives in Kansas City, MO, working as a lawyer but I am kicking myself for squandering a chance, but then I feel bad because I didn't tell the current guy I am dating about all that happened in new orleans and I am trying to go on as usual. Does anyone have any advice on how to get past this?
FNW
Forget about it and move on. You owe this guy you are casually dating nothing. You made out with a drunk guy and that was that. If you continue to think about it, it's because it was fun. Nothing good can come from telling the guy you are dating, except you would be hurting him, perhaps. And perhaps he made out with some drunk gal while you were in NOLA. So what. You are not serious. If you want to find MO guy, you could always check the MO State Bar.
Guuuut
You know what they say: "what happens in New Orleans stays in New Orleans". He probably went back to his wife and kid in Kansas City.
Oh Kay
Don't spend 20 minutes typing out long, run together, posts about it?
time4menow
That's ok.You BF didn't tell you about the girl he made out with either.So you are even.
SultryD
awww man don't you just hate when that happens....post it on craigslist... or the local news paper. .. you'll find him.
Magic Eight Ball
but then I feel bad because I didn't tell the current guy I am dating about all that happened in new orleans and I am trying to go on as usual. Does anyone have any advice on how to get past this?You need to come clean with your boyfriend. Talk to him about what happened, tell him this is why you are acting strange. You had a quick make out with a guy you otherwise probably wouldn't be interested in anyway and you don't need to start dreaming up fantasys of you being with this guy!
SultryD
You need to come clean with your boyfriend. Talk to him about what happened, tell him this is why you are acting strange.you need to not listen to Jane.
Oh Kay
You need to come clean with your boyfriend. The hell she does.
Magic Eight Ball
Which sucks because I am dating, not seriously, a guy who is great but I just can't get this other guy out of my head to My bad, you are just dating and not seriously, so you don't have to tell him unless you two are in a committed dating thing
Happy as ever
My bad,What does that mean? I'm bad???? Is it from out west or something?
Magic Eight Ball
What does that mean? I'm bad???? Is it from out west or something? Like, my mistake! I made a mistake!
Guuuut
My bad,What does that mean? I'm bad???? Is it from out west or something?You must be old! That's the lastest in verbiage. I guess you're not a verbivore.
kerplunkLYN
That's the lastest in verbiage. I guess you're not a verbivore. The latest?! Hardly...
Thats me A Fairy
The latest?! Hardly...really my mom uses that one and if she's using it then its on its way out not the latest.
Guuuut
The latest?! Hardly...sick
Jennifer37
A client of mine said "My bad" to me on the phone back in 1999. I didn't know what the he11 he was talking about.
Aaryn S Gray
It probably seems insensitive, but eventually, you'll get over this guy that you met in New Orleans and either stay with this other guy, or call it quits with that one and start seeing someone else.
Guuuut
My bad,What does that mean? I'm bad???? Is it from out west or something?You must be old! That's the lastest in verbiage. I guess you're not a verbivore.
kerplunkLYN
That's the lastest in verbiage. I guess you're not a verbivore. The latest?! Hardly...
Thats me A Fairy
The latest?! Hardly...really my mom uses that one and if she's using it then its on its way out not the latest.
Guuuut
The latest?! Hardly...sick
Jennifer37
A client of mine said "My bad" to me on the phone back in 1999. I didn't know what the he11 he was talking about.
Aaryn S Gray
It probably seems insensitive, but eventually, you'll get over this guy that you met in New Orleans and either stay with this other guy, or call it quits with that one and start seeing someone else.