A day in the life of hell and internet dating scene....

ev1lkitty
My person of intrest....if he shall remain that way is totally up in the air. Is a unique person all in himself. We have dated for about two years and lived together for about a year and now live separately. My choice....sweet loving man with anger and control issues. Still the same I am still with him. Hoping to help fix him per say. Last week, I go to use his computer and his email is up....showing me that he is talking to women that he had met on a internet dating site while we were on a break. ****...he says he only wants me...loves only me...and only talks them because he is bored. Get a hobby!!!! So after much argument and him pinning over me, I decided to make him promise that he will not do it again. Low and behold, what do I find a week later on his shady phone (he has two cell phones, his and the one I had while we were together. I call the one that was mine the shady phone) I find that he is talking to another women. Completely different women. What am I thinking, am I really that blind to love, is it really love or do I like torturing myself. He is really sweet and giving...he is taking me away at the end of the month. Always buying me things and paying me compliments, but that doesn't make up for talking to other women. Not trying to be jealous but come on....you met them with the intention of dating them.....

Oh Kay
My choice....sweet loving man with anger and control issues. Wow. Sounds sweet & loving to me. Quit making excuses for him. He's controlling, he's cheating. Why are you still there? Why did you live together and are not living together. What's that about?

bbwroof
wow .it' good .some reasons for your relatinos ?internet dating .i love it too .i had dated one guy on the internet dating site .he is really cute.i would admit that i love him .

100pcentangel
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Pamela63
Oh Kay is right...he's controlling and cheating and you deserve better than that....with no shadiness involved!....sometimes it also can be a pattern in ourselves to 'look' for that bad-boy type.....it's a self confidence/ego thing and everyone is susceptible to it, myself included.

Guuuut
He sounds like a real catch. Seems like a no brainer.

noquisi
When do you get the message to bounce! I could understand it coming from a teenager or from a novice but when you have matured and been thru several relationships some things are just a given. This is not about love. You are trying to save someone who isn't worth saving and if he were he has to want to do it for himself. When it is all said and done, you will be blaming yourself for not having taken action the minute you sensed that he was a loser!

Pamela63
Run the other way...Quickly!

tmom628
his buying you things and compliments are a way of controlling you....if you're suspicious in your gut, follow that! RUN!!!

ev1lkitty
My person of intrest....if he shall remain that way is totally up in the air. Is a unique person all in himself. We have dated for about two years and lived together for about a year and now live separately. My choice....sweet loving man with anger and control issues. Still the same I am still with him. Hoping to help fix him per say. Last week, I go to use his computer and his email is up....showing me that he is talking to women that he had met on a internet dating site while we were on a break. ****...he says he only wants me...loves only me...and only talks them because he is bored. Get a hobby!!!! So after much argument and him pinning over me, I decided to make him promise that he will not do it again. Low and behold, what do I find a week later on his shady phone (he has two cell phones, his and the one I had while we were together. I call the one that was mine the shady phone) I find that he is talking to another women. Completely different women. What am I thinking, am I really that blind to love, is it really love or do I like torturing myself. He is really sweet and giving...he is taking me away at the end of the month. Always buying me things and paying me compliments, but that doesn't make up for talking to other women. Not trying to be jealous but come on....you met them with the intention of dating them.....

Oh Kay
My choice....sweet loving man with anger and control issues. Wow. Sounds sweet & loving to me. Quit making excuses for him. He's controlling, he's cheating. Why are you still there? Why did you live together and are not living together. What's that about?

bbwroof
wow .it' good .some reasons for your relatinos ?internet dating .i love it too .i had dated one guy on the internet dating site .he is really cute.i would admit that i love him .

100pcentangel
reported

Pamela63
Oh Kay is right...he's controlling and cheating and you deserve better than that....with no shadiness involved!....sometimes it also can be a pattern in ourselves to 'look' for that bad-boy type.....it's a self confidence/ego thing and everyone is susceptible to it, myself included.

Guuuut
He sounds like a real catch. Seems like a no brainer.

noquisi
When do you get the message to bounce! I could understand it coming from a teenager or from a novice but when you have matured and been thru several relationships some things are just a given. This is not about love. You are trying to save someone who isn't worth saving and if he were he has to want to do it for himself. When it is all said and done, you will be blaming yourself for not having taken action the minute you sensed that he was a loser!

Pamela63
Run the other way...Quickly!

tmom628
his buying you things and compliments are a way of controlling you....if you're suspicious in your gut, follow that! RUN!!!

ev1lkitty
My person of intrest....if he shall remain that way is totally up in the air. Is a unique person all in himself. We have dated for about two years and lived together for about a year and now live separately. My choice....sweet loving man with anger and control issues. Still the same I am still with him. Hoping to help fix him per say. Last week, I go to use his computer and his email is up....showing me that he is talking to women that he had met on a internet dating site while we were on a break. ****...he says he only wants me...loves only me...and only talks them because he is bored. Get a hobby!!!! So after much argument and him pinning over me, I decided to make him promise that he will not do it again. Low and behold, what do I find a week later on his shady phone (he has two cell phones, his and the one I had while we were together. I call the one that was mine the shady phone) I find that he is talking to another women. Completely different women. What am I thinking, am I really that blind to love, is it really love or do I like torturing myself. He is really sweet and giving...he is taking me away at the end of the month. Always buying me things and paying me compliments, but that doesn't make up for talking to other women. Not trying to be jealous but come on....you met them with the intention of dating them.....

Oh Kay
My choice....sweet loving man with anger and control issues. Wow. Sounds sweet & loving to me. Quit making excuses for him. He's controlling, he's cheating. Why are you still there? Why did you live together and are not living together. What's that about?

bbwroof
wow .it' good .some reasons for your relatinos ?internet dating .i love it too .i had dated one guy on the internet dating site .he is really cute.i would admit that i love him .

100pcentangel
reported

Pamela63
Oh Kay is right...he's controlling and cheating and you deserve better than that....with no shadiness involved!....sometimes it also can be a pattern in ourselves to 'look' for that bad-boy type.....it's a self confidence/ego thing and everyone is susceptible to it, myself included.

Guuuut
He sounds like a real catch. Seems like a no brainer.

noquisi
When do you get the message to bounce! I could understand it coming from a teenager or from a novice but when you have matured and been thru several relationships some things are just a given. This is not about love. You are trying to save someone who isn't worth saving and if he were he has to want to do it for himself. When it is all said and done, you will be blaming yourself for not having taken action the minute you sensed that he was a loser!

Pamela63
Run the other way...Quickly!

tmom628
his buying you things and compliments are a way of controlling you....if you're suspicious in your gut, follow that! RUN!!!