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Aha! What kept us together was SEX!
fast love
I just realized, bingo!, that what kept my old b/f interested in me and me interested in him was SEX! He was just absolutely gorgeous when I first saw him, and he thought I was "cute." So, the next thing you know, me and him are talking and for two years! All we had in common was the desire for each other.We never had sex, mind you.But that is the common thing between us! We both wanted each other physically!I don't think a real relationship can blossom out of a base of sex. Maybe it can. Hmph!Now I know! ::light bulb having gone off:: SEX, SEX, SEX! What a glue to keep two people together! Hmph!Oh, he used to get mad when I occasionally said our relationship was based on sex. He always disagreed. ???
Aaryn S Gray
mkay. I wonder if anyone is going to respond to this.
100pcentangel
I just realized, bingo!, that what kept my old b/f interested in me and me interested in him was SEX! We never had sex, mind you.But that is the common thing between us! We both wanted each other physicallyOh, he used to get mad when I occasionally said our relationship was based on sex Lady are you out of your mind. Read your post you make no f**king sense. You keep saying it was based on something you never had. Reality check baby, oh, and start taking your medication again, it might help you with your delusions.
DeliriouslyHappy
im guessing about 74 pictures of him on her wall...some of them with darts thrown at them...some of them with hearts drawn around his head with red lipstick...hope you bought the cheap maybelline stuff...it would have been a shame if you used mac...
Socal1962
GET A NEW THERAPIST, YOUR A NUT!!
100pcentangel
I HAVE BEEN INSTITUTIONALIZED! and for a long period of years during my adolescence. THAT is why I am so screwy socially! I have been mingling with other screwy people for several years, never learning the right way to socializeThis explains alot for us. This was on the advice for the broken heart side. I think multiple personalities might be slipping in there with the bipolar but im not a psychiatrist.
Guuuut
Oh, he used to get mad when I occasionally said our relationship was based on sex. He always disagreed. If there was no AHEM, how can it be based on AHEM???
fast love
DeliriouslyHappy, you are right about the posters idea. I am half in love with him and half want nothing to do with himMaybe I should rephrase: We were together because of the PROMISE of sex.And Guut, you too are right. There was no "AHEM" but, again, the PROMISE of "AHEM" was enough for him to be interested, plus the naked pictures I supplied him with, and the dirty talk over the phone. Our relationship consisted mostly of talking on the phone. I only saw him 4-6 times since our days in school 2 years ago. It's not enough to KNOW him and make a good judgment, which is why I have half & half view of him, Delirious. I don't hang around him enough to know him and then commit to one viewpoint of him.I am lonely, and my therapist suggested he might be too, which is why we talked on the phone a lot. Still there is no excuse for him to NOT give me his phone number. It's a real relationship killer! Ha! But I did my part, too: I used to "stalk" him with non-stop txt msgs and calls, so he got mad and said he got a new number, never giving that new number to me.
sweetlove79
GET A NEW THERAPIST, YOUR A NUT!!Could not have said it better socal. Fastlove, you need serious help.
kerplunkLYN
Maybe I should rephrase: We were together because of the PROMISE of sex.HAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Socal1962
Still there is no excuse for him to NOT give me his phone number. It's a real relationship killer! Ha! But I did my part, too: I used to "stalk" him Sounds like you're still stalking him. He didn't give you his number for exactly this reason His doesn't need or deserve the **** you're putting him through. LEAVE HIM ALONE. He made it clear he doesn't want anything to do with you
Aaryn S Gray
What a weird thread.
Guuuut
We were together because of the PROMISE of sex.Hey that sounds like marriage!!
Aaryn S Gray
Maybe ya'll had a certain chemistry.. not just sex. I could be totally wrong, but sometimes relationships that last don't exactly make much sense. Why would they have to make sense, anyway.. it's about two people that feel strongly about each other.
100pcentangel
Maybe ya'll had a certain chemistry.. not just sex.Aaryn, they never had sex and the only chemistry was an inbalance her mind
Socal1962
What kept us together was sexYou were NEVER together. Only your imagination keeps you that way.
TamMathis
Can some one say stalker?
sweetlove79
already did. I think? is this the bipolar?
100pcentangel
I HAVE BEEN INSTITUTIONALIZED! and for a long period of years during my adolescence. THAT is why I am so screwy socially! I have been mingling with other screwy people for several years, never learning the right way to socializeYes this is the bipolar....the above she admitted to on another board for broken hearted advice
TamMathis
Ah Ha! I just realized something! The only thing that kept us together was the rope in basement! Well not that he ever tied me up. But the promise of tying me up was there. We knew each other for years and always had that kind of relationship. I better behave my self. Its just kinda funny.
grass g
you feel good about yourself, others will follow.my friends in http://plusminlge.com/user/big5 also think so
SultryD
Oh, he used to get mad when I occasionally said our relationship was based on sex. He always disagreed. .....You guys didn't even have sex... Woman what is your deal? Are you deranged?
truelove21
I don't understand where you get the idea you were ever together or that you even had chemistry! If all you ever did was talk on the phone and you sent him dirty pictures, how does that constitute a relationship? He even changed his number and didn't give you the new one!!!! You admitted she stalked him! I think he was stringing you along because the whole thing was entertaining to him. I can't believe you are dumb enough to admit to this! You are crazy, and definitely need help. I don't think the "promise" of sex keeps a guy interested. I think your craziness was keeping him entertained. Girl, you have to know he is laughing it up with all of his buddies behind your back!
tmom628
this is just sad, sweetheart, go back to your therapist, and tell her/him the full truth....if your therapist thought this was a real relationship, you did tell the whole story to him/her
mike_a
There was no "AHEM" but, again, the PROMISE of "AHEM" was enough for him to be interested, plus the naked pictures I supplied him with, and the dirty talk over the phone. I think we just found rottencrotch whats he name. 40 yr old virgin nut bag.
sweetlove79
i cant beleive i'm being compared to this nut.
sweetlove79
i am atleast still on the same planet as everyone else, and i know which end is up. This girl is beyond CRAZY. come on...... give a little.
kerplunkLYN
i cant beleive i'm being compared to this nut.Why not? You're both delusional about your "relationships."
sweetlove79
Thanksgiving is so soon.
sweetlove79
whatever bitch
mike_a
OHHH snap she said the "B" word.
Guut
Is this our new Jane?
Guuuut
No, this is the new solo
Guut
Oy, I hadn't though of that.
Guut
NO! It's worse......EMMA
Socal1962
......EMMANNNOOOOOOOOOOOO