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Ahhhhhhh, Californication
Guuuut
The sun is shining, the sky is clear blue, a gentle ocean breeze, pretty ladies in bikinis, ahhhh Californication. I was at the beach for my son's surfing lesson and started thinking (dangerous stuff I know!).The bikinis got me thinking; in a new relationship would you rather be seen first in your birthday suit in dim bedroom light or seen in a bathing suit in bright sun light? I saw le spouse in her birthday suit before a bathing suit.
sabs83
hm....probably birthday suit. Why need to feel embarassed in the swim suit when the guy has already seen all the goods?
Kendra_is_Kendra
Probably birthday suit. That's always been the case, in fact! I feel far more comfortable nude than in a bathing suit. The human body is so beautiful, but a bathing suit pinches at it in ways that make it look dumpy and frumpy.
Que_Sera_118
Birthday suit, but because of the dim lighting. Those shadows do wonders for hiding the flaws.
Guuuut
Ahh, everyone is birthday suit!!
Kendra_is_Kendra
Yeah! Bathing suits are the devil. Buying one is traumatic
Guuuut
Buying one is traumatic Never had that problem. But I was thinking women might as well buy lingerie for all that a bikini covers.
Kendra_is_Kendra
But I was thinking women might as well buy lingerie for all that a bikini covers.Interesting thing about that, isn't it? Though bathing suit fabric is thicker, not see-through, and not something you wear to bed! I think it's a context thing. I was horrified when I was caught in a bra by a delivery boy at work while changing one summer years ago. But I wear a bikini.Yeah, gotta be the context.
Guuuut
Yeah, gotta be the context.So true. I see women jogging in these "bra like" tops and my wife has a jogging bra, but she would never wear the jogging bra without a shirt. Although there was that Seinfeld episode about bras...
Kendra_is_Kendra
Yeah. That braless woman is gonna be reallllly saggy before her time! Those were some big breasts, man.I drew this one life model who never wore a bra. About 30 and her nipples touched her belly button. Really unpleasant. And a bitch to draw.
Guuuut
Well, I'm not complaining about braless women. Sorry.
Kendra_is_Kendra
I am! Bra yourself! Or face the saggy consequences Plus, they're distracting. Humph.
Guuuut
But it's a nice distraction. Well, you know men, very visual.
Kendra_is_Kendra
But what if they're gone braless so long they're now at the elbows and still swinging freely? Still okay?
Guuuut
Nah, I'll just move on and look elsewhere.
Kendra_is_Kendra
So there are limits to bralessness. Everything in moderation!I've grown a distasteful love of exclamation points. Le sigh.
sabs83
Hm...I used to wish I was smaller so I didn't have to wear a bra always...sigh. As for the swimsuit underwear thing...is it just me or does underwear seem to fit better? I feel like every swimsuit I have ever owned (and I have had many different types so it's not even just I got the wrong kind) has pulled or pinched and made me feel icky. But when I buy underwear it fits flawlessly. I've always wanted to buy underwear and wear it as a swimsuit. I hate swimsuits!
jtguy
I've always wanted to buy underwear and wear it as a swimsuit.can i see that
sabs83
I guess as long as it wasn't see through or lacy....that just wouldn't work....
jtguy
Um, it might....for me...lol
sabs83
should have seen that coming.... Hey...are you getting the "messages are being posted too often" message?
jtguy
yeah, and i cant imagine that many people on right now
sabs83
it's driving me up a wall! grrr!
EJ86
easyy red hot chilli peppers
kerplunkLYN
I've grown a distasteful love of exclamation points. Le sigh. I have an unhealthy desire to move to Canada...
FairyMagic_29
I have an unhealthy desire to move to Canada...Moving to Canada can't be unhealthy, all that fresh air and the moose's and stuff!!!
kerplunkLYN
- Maybe I'm just unnaturally in love with historia and Kendra. (Chicago won't have me! )
FairyMagic_29
(Chicago won't have me! )Pffft well that's pretty rude!!!!!Yeah I like kendra too but not sure about historia I don't think I've ever reallly talked to her.
kerplunkLYN
You're missing out! She's le great!
Guuuut
It's not time to move to Canada, the loonie is worth too much!
Guut
The bikinis got me thinkingWhere is BEAKER!HISTORIA???? ARE YOU HERE?Can someone please explain that thinking with your penis IS different than thinking with your brain.P.S. Birthday Suit. - Maybe I'm just unnaturally in love with historia and Kendra. (Chicago won't have me! )I HATE you!
Guuuut
Are you suggesting males have two IQs? One for the small brain and one for the big brain.
Guut
The small one only detracts from the cumulative score.
Unlikely Unicorn
It must be so. They also compete for dominance.
Guuuut
The small one only detracts from the cumulative score.Ha, doubles my score!
Guut
I could say something completely inappropriate and rude right now......but fortunately for your delicate ego - I'm too tired and kind.