Am I overreacting?

sweetlove79
Oh hunny, you have to move on. 5 years?????? omg. Big RED FLAGS. If you ask me, you have been strung along for 5 yrs, so he never has to be alone. Sorry to say that, but that's what it sounds like. how old are you?

Guut
How old are the two of you?

sweetlove79
AGES PLEASE>

MissyB12
We're in our mid twenties.

sweetlove79
Are you stupid or something? why a 5 year long distance relationshiP? did you not want to be near eachother by then? something is very wrong here.

MissyB12
We've both been going to different schools about an hour and a half apart.

sweetlove79
So young. Move on and start having fun again. Life is short and you have just spent 5 very highschool years with someone. If it was your highschool sweetheart and you were meant to be together, diff story. Well, is it?

and so it begins
hmmmmmi am available and i do not have a myspace account to get in the way of our relationship....

Oh Kay
Are you stupid or something? why a 5 year long distance relationshiP? did you not want to be near eachother by then? something is very wrong here.I've been in a LDR for 4 and I am most definitely not stupid. They are an hour & 1/2 apart, that's barely long distance.

Unlikely Unicorn
Kay, I thought of you when I read that post, and I wondered if you'd catch it. I agree that sweet's assessment regarding LDRs and stupidity was a bit absurd.

Guuuut
Hey, they are in school. I had an LDR for three years in College. This could be a sign he is wanting to explore his options or it could be he is telling the truth. You are the best judge. If you can't tell when he is lying after 5 years, then you aren't that close. A woman can read a man like a book. Based on posts, I would say myspace is bad news, oh wait, I have one. I should check to see what my status is.

Thats me A Fairy
I agree that sweet's assessment regarding LDRs and stupidity was a bit absurd. Umm yeah the fact that they didn't rush into like living together just because they have been with one another for 5 years shows more matureity then a lot of people in there 20's Love. That being said, either you trust him or you don't and from the sounds of it you don't, so leave. If after 5 years he has not been able to make you trust him it isn't going to happen. If you seperate now on a good basis you might be able to stay frineds some what. Act like a grown-up and walk away, because your mis-trust wether it is founded or not will ruin any friendship you might be able to keep with him. If you didn't understand the above, I was saying: Just be Friends

Guuuut
Hey, they are in school. I had an LDR for three years in College. This could be a sign he is wanting to explore his options or it could be he is telling the truth. You are the best judge. If you can't tell when he is lying after 5 years, then you aren't that close. A woman can read a man like a book. Based on posts, I would say myspace is bad news, oh wait, I have one. I should check to see what my status is.

Thats me A Fairy
I agree that sweet's assessment regarding LDRs and stupidity was a bit absurd. Umm yeah the fact that they didn't rush into like living together just because they have been with one another for 5 years shows more matureity then a lot of people in there 20's Love. That being said, either you trust him or you don't and from the sounds of it you don't, so leave. If after 5 years he has not been able to make you trust him it isn't going to happen. If you seperate now on a good basis you might be able to stay frineds some what. Act like a grown-up and walk away, because your mis-trust wether it is founded or not will ruin any friendship you might be able to keep with him. If you didn't understand the above, I was saying: Just be Friends